Sunday, 23 August 2015

Understanding the context in order to grasp the reality!!!

Hello, Folks!
How are things? Hope you have come to find inspiring subjects while reading "Insperience". Bearing my purpose in mind, I mean, to bring about inspiration into your life, this week I feel like writing about human contexts and their relation over reality. It seems something really complicated to understand and you might be wondering: What the hell she is talking about? But then, if you have not yet realized it by yourself, as I did, you will eventually understand the point I want to make.

This came to my mind probably because it is something that I have frequently, if not daily, come to think about. As adults, it is pretty much normal to find ourselves trapped in puzzling situations that might require time and effort from us to get rid of them. For instance, how many times have you asked yourself whether you should keep your job or quit it immediately? How many times have you inquired yourself if your partner is still making you feel happy? How many times have you questioned yourself if you are taking the right path? Sometimes, it may be very simple to get the answer. But at other times, you might feel bewildered and unsure about which way you should take. Normally, in this last situation, people start sharing their problems with family members or even closest friends in an attempt to help themselves to come up with a solution. And that is where the problem lies.

I am not telling you that you must keep your problems deeply locked inside yourself and try lonely to figure the exit out. Definitely not. What I am trying to explain to you is that you must surely share your problems with the ones who you consider most in life. But you must really be aware of the fact that living and learning from life is a unique, personal and not transferable process. Unless your family and friends manage to momentarily leave their own context in order to grasp your reality, it will be pointless listening to others' point of view. Or, only to be less radical, do listen to others' advice, but do not forget to be true with yourself, and listen mostly to your inner voice, your intuition. The only one which will peacefully and honestly lead you to make the right decision. Think about it!!!